Nearly every teenager (and even young adult) today struggles with defining who they are, where they fit in, and what difference they can make in the world. You can adopt those questions in the Christian church context and ask, “Who am I? Where do I belong? What is God’s Will for in my life?” The struggle to address these questions are influenced by expectations of others, including friends, parents, teachers, coaches, and the local church. All of those closest to a student could have a profound impact on their life and faith, for the better… or worse.
We can find answers in Scripture, of course! Romans 12:1-2, “I appeal to you therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship. Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.”
Identity (dirty word today, yet relevant), belonging, purpose—three categories we in the Body of Christ must clearly define for our students. What is our identity? It is found in Christ. Where do we belong? We belong in the Body of Christ. What is our purpose? It is to be living sacrifices for Christ! This is all well and good… one thing that the Church has failed to address: How?
Athanasius, an early Church Father and Bishop of Alexandra, coined the term, Contra Mundum, “Against the World.” Romans 12:2 tells us that conformity to the World and discernment of God’s Will cannot coexist in a believer. In order to be for God, you must be against the World. That is how students must go about answering those essential questions in life. Values that we learn to advocate according to our faith are generally at odds with those forced upon each and every one of us in our society. So, can we as God-glorifying, Christ-loving, Spirit-following, Bible-believing Christians purpose to follow God and not the World?